July 1, 2011
Loose Lips
Today’s Thought:
“Gossip is the art of saying nothing in a way that leaves practically nothing unsaid.” – Walter Winchell
Today’s Quote:
“Tale Bearers are as bad as the Tale makers – ‘tis an old observation and a very true one.” – Richard Sheridan (from ‘The School of Scandal’)
Today’s Question
Have you ever wondered if: “Conversation between Adam and Eve must have been difficult at times because they had nobody to talk about?” – Agnes Repolier
Today’s Bible Verses: Proverbs 11:13, Proverbs 20:19 & 1 Timothy 5:13
A talebearer revealeth secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter.
He that goeth about as a talebearer revealeth secrets: therefore meddle not with him that flattereth with his lips.
And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not.
Today’s Spiritual Thought:
“Where there are no hearers, there would be no backbiters [gossips].” – George Herbert
Technically, I suppose the less said about gossips the less likely it could be that we ourselves might become guilty of gossiping.
However truth is truth and fact is fact and if an item is fact and it is stated then it is not gossip.
So then let it be stated, that gossip is one of the biggest problems in the church today. More hurt and more harm is done by loose lips and wagging tongues than by most of the worlds natural disasters like earthquakes, tornadoes, fires and hurricanes; and sadly the impact and affect can sometimes be much longer lasting.
“A gossip can give you all the details without knowing and of the facts.” – Anonymous
As Christians we are to encourage each other: help one another; and love everyone – this is hard to do if we are stabbing each other in the back and spreading falsehoods or even truths that are hurtful and harming.
Just because you know about something doesn’t always mean you have to share what you know.
Maybe this would be a good litmus test for things we want to share in love; would what we are bout to say be something we would want someone else to say about us and if we were sitting in a circle with Jesus would we be willing to share what is it is we are contemplating saying?
And always remember this: “Whoever gossips to you will gossip about you.” – Sir Philip Sidney
Words may be a dime a dozen but the impact that they have is far greater – so think before you speak and only speak when what you have to say is worthy of being said
If we would learn to say less about each other and more about God; how different the world might be.
Today’s Prayer:
Father, help me to remember that words can hurt more than sticks and stones and I need to remember that not only must I account to you for what I do, I must also give account for the things I say. So help my words to be seasoned with love, peace, joy and hope.